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ponto
November 29th, 2005, 01:08 PM
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Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish
Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little
boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker and they were hoping for a
miracle.

I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family there
were no miracles left for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia
procedure for the old dog in their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good
for the four-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though
Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family
surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time,
that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker
slipped peacefully away. The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition
without any difficulty or confusion.

We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the
sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been
listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."

Startled, we all turned to him.

What came out of his mouth next stunned me.

I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.

He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life --
like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?"

The four-year-old continued,

"Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."

kdown
November 29th, 2005, 02:09 PM
Couldn't help but think of our 17 year old toy poodle while I was reading it

Foxy
November 29th, 2005, 05:00 PM
So very very true!! I never thought about that way.

hummer
December 1st, 2005, 07:50 PM
Its ashame that adults can not think likre the 4 year old.

redneck
December 2nd, 2005, 02:51 PM
my doberman was done that way when i was 9 and ill never forget that i was there when he went and am glad i was there when it happened
it helped me to deal with the loss so i think the parents done the right thing

nickleahevan
December 2nd, 2005, 11:11 PM
Proof that children are smarter than we give them credit for. Don't you wish we could all keep that innocence?

nickleahevan
December 2nd, 2005, 11:13 PM
Proof that children are smarter than we give them credit for.